Five years ago we said yes to each other on a beach in front of our beloved family and friends, with our children intertwined in our feet. We were already partners before we got married. I became a mother before I became a wife. I love that. So what changed that day? Nothing. Our commitment to each other was there way before we said ‘I do’. It just so happened that we got to celebrate and throw a kick-ass Day of the Dead party. Oh, and I got to wear this beautiful dress.